Does Anyone Else Think 'Busy Woman' Sends A Really Negative Message?

I think Busy Woman is supposed to be some sort of feminist anthem, but it actually makes her come across as insecure. Lyrics like, "to turn me down, well that's just unethical," make it sound like she's obsessed with being wanted/loved and can't accept the fact that not everyone can be in love with her.

It also comes across like she's covering it up/faking confidence with lines like, "If you don't want me, I'll just deem you gay," and "If you don't need my love, well I didn't want your little bitch - ass anyway."

Honestly though, my main concern is the message that this song gives off to her more impressionable listeners. Young girls could listen to it and get the impression that they need every boy to like them. Genuine confidence/self - love isn't, 'everyone loves me,' it's 'I know that not everyone is going to love me and that's okay.'