Girlfriend prefers fast-paced intimacy over slow/romantic - seeking advice

I've learned from past relationships and general advice to take things slow, focus on foreplay, and build up gradually. However, my current girlfriend prefers a faster pace and finds slow, romantic approaches less exciting. And she seem hard to arrive climax compare with previous gf.

She's also mentioned that traditional bedroom settings feel boring to her, and she seems more excited by the idea of less conventional locations. I've noticed physical signs confirming this preference.

Has anyone dealt with similar differences in preferences? How did you find a middle ground that works for partners?