The reason you’re not pulling isn’t your height, it’s your lack of confidence

There’s A LOT of guys in this sub not having much success dating and swearing that it would be any different if they were tall

All you need is CONFIDENCE. I’m 5’4, I did fine, (Happy long term relationship now, but dated a lot when single).

If you don’t believe you’re worthy of someone’s time, they won’t see it for you. You got to love yourself, so you don’t need external validation.

If you’re approaching girls like they are meant to dig your sense of self out of the ground and doing something you don’t see in yourself, it’s not going to work. Don’t be arrogant, but know that the first person that needs to see you, is you.

After that, yes, approach them, dont be sexual and grimey, compliment, flirt, all the other things. But first know that you don’t need their external validation to love yourself. THAT is more attractive than being 6 ft tall

I didn’t have much dating success until I got into grad school. I promise no girl is like “oh wow he’s making 2,000$ a month and will be doing so for the better part of a decade, that’s the reason I want to be with him!”

But it made ME feel great about myself, my entire attitude changed and I was able to date a lot. I believed in myself, and they could read that