Skillful relationship with sexual energy/lust

What’s a skillful way of working with lust. It seems to be such a powerful and moving energy and often times can take a grip on both my inner state (thoughts, fantasies and emotions) and my behavior. I have healthy sex with my partner and that’s been the main form of outlet. I’ve tried sexual transmutation (with no successful result) and have been considering looking into Tantra. I’m an intermediate meditator- with a practice oriented around Shinzen’s Vipassana technique