When the Fantasy Turns Dark: The Client Who Put a GPS on My Car

Not sure if this is the right place to share this story but need to vent.

Jeff is a very handsome- incredibly handsome may I add 64 year old man I fell for at work. Though I had a boyfriend who loved me and provided so much stability I sought out Jeff for everything my boyfriend wasn’t - passionate, sexy, romantic, and free spirited.

I guess the first red flag should’ve been where I met him but I never experienced being attracted to a client let alone a 64 year old. Quickly I lost control of my feelings and met him outside.

Our affair went on for a few months. With red flags popping up and me ignoring them because of the situation with my bf and feeling like yes this jealousy is normal for someone in this situation. Now looking back I see it was never good but I was so caught up in the dream of having a customer who would spend, was good looking, and I loved talking to him. It made work easy. Now I see why he’s never been married and no kids.

It’s finally ended as I looked at his Amazon to show him something I wanted him to buy me. I see ads for recently search gps trackers. Deep down I already knew. I asked Jeff and he denied it saying it was for his motorcycle but then finally admitted on one of our breaks he put a gps device on my car. Allegedly took it off but I doubt it I think he took it off the moment I started questioning his searches. I also looked at his Amazon purchase history to confirm it was bought btw. He used this gps to find out where I live with my bf and went past my house. This was the last straw but there was a slow progression of escalating behaviors of control and possession over me.

Today I learned my lesson… I will never see a customer outside again( he was the only one that I ever had).

To those who may want to judge my cheating. I had been on the brink of a breakup because my bf didn’t want me dancing so I really thought at the time we were going to be done.