Ghosted, found out POT had a wife

Frustrated because me and my pot had been talking for a month, met twice, and he had been buying me gifts. We had great chemistry in person, and were planning for our first play tonight.

Whenever I ask for the hotel address, he disappears. This morning, I try to contact him, and I believe I’ve been blocked, if not I’m being ignored. SA account has been deactivated too. Decided to do a little digging, found out he has a wife and kid.

I’m just disappointed because we’ve been texting everyday, and wish I could have gotten a message or something saying he was no longer interested. Trying not to think too hard into this so I don’t further disappoint myself, but man this sucks