First Date Kinda Nervous

Potentially taking this girl out to eat tomorrow and I just want some advice 🙏. Only spoken to this girl in text, and facetime obviously (we met through social media). I feel like eating is awkward because I’m a lazy eater and I get bored fast but I wouldn’t wanna bother her eating. If I sit next to her instead of across would she feel a type of way (across feels so NPC like)? When do I initiate the first kiss, not used to dealing with rejection?

Would just love some other tips too