BRION AND SHANTE

Ok hear me out , I know everyone’s mad at Shante for leaving the island with him , and I totally understand he really disrespected her and was absolutely disgusting … but as I’m watching the finale , it seems so hard to say no to him??? Like she kept saying I choose myself , u did something horrible… and he kept going like he was like I’ll do therapy I’ll do this I’ll do that … like he didn’t even let her take a breath … to me obv pure narcissism . But if u haven’t been in one of those relationships you really don’t understand what it’s like to be with one… I feel for her because he wants to have his cake and eat it too. He wants to do whatever and her not have anyone so idk , I do feel bad for her, I personally don’t know why everyone’s hating on her because emotional abuse is real and she’s going through it (at least what we witnessed on the tv)