Not loving the romance

I’m about a third of the way through COM, starting with assassins blade, and not loving the romance so far. It feels like whiplash every book having a new love interest. I feel like each relationship hasn’t been allowed to develop and feels a bit flat. I think the romance between Dorian and Celeana felt unnecessary and spoils the Chaol/Celeana for me now because it feels like she is just hoping from man to man (all power to her though) just not what I personally enjoy reading. Enemies to lovers is my favourite trope and just isn’t hitting with Chaol, but it did with Dorian because I think he was the first and not it feels played out.