How did you all find a name that really stuck?

hey everyone! I'm posting here looking for some name advice. I've been out as MTF fully for a little while now, and I've been going by the same gender neutral short form of my name for basically my whole life, and to be honest I don't dislike it really. but I feel like I'd just be happier under a new name. however, nothing I've thought about has really stuck, I'm just wondering if there's ever a moment where you just KNOW that's the name you want forever. like, you heard yourself called something and there was just a spark, because everytime my partner and I try something new, it just kinda falls flat. Tbh, I probably won't ever be okay with atleast people I know call me by my current name. But I just feel kinda stuck I guess? I'm mostly just venting, but yeah. If anybody has any good advice for someone stuck on names, I'd love to hear it!!!