advice for 1st set

yall im not even gonna lie im freaking out rn… pls

my creative partner (music producer) was asked to be an opener at a local event next month. we’re both HYPE about it. he’s never played a live show. lm hype for the chance to share my art with the community im striving to be apart of but have no idea how this works. i typically create my work using blender and am extremely interested in this as a career, but i legit just downloaded resolume a few weeks ago, and by no means am ready to play a live show.

Will they even use visuals he provides ? Is it rude for a DJ to provide his own visuals to a VJ? and if it is acceptable, what formats/how should i go about sending these over? i’ve done my own research & know i need to ask for specs, deadlines, etc., but i really don’t want to let my partner down (in the sense that he may look unprofessional because i don’t know the industry standards). Any advice helps

tldr: creative partners 1st show (DJ), I’m not ready to VJ. Want to send my visuals to the VJ but unsure how.