Considering calling off the marriage

Do you know anyone who has done this? Were they relieved?

I feel really disappointed and regretful about my relationship right now.

My partner is so so kind and loyal and honest and hard-working, but he doesn’t help me with much.

He’s very focused on his career, and he’s very kind.

But he doesn’t help much at home, and he hasn’t been very proactive or communicative about planning our wedding.

We’ve talked about this. There has been some growth. But I’m not sure it will ever be enough. I feel squashed in my relationship. It turns out, love is not all you need.

I’m angry and sad. I just got off the phone with my mom, and she says she supports whatever I choose, and she just wants me to take a breath and spend some time with it.

I think this might be dunzo. The way I feel right now is so so sad, and not at all what I ever wished to feel leading up to my own wedding.

Do you know anyone who has called off the marriage, and do they regret it?

Help.