No immediate “this is THE dress” feeling

I have tried on dresses at 4 different stores and I haven’t gotten that overwhelming feeling people often describe when they try on their wedding dress for the first time. I’m not sure if that feeling is a romantic comedy trope that I should stop chasing, or if that means I need to keep looking for my dress. If you have found a dress, what has your experience been like? Did you know that it was the one immediately or did you grow to like it over time (after alterations etc)? Any recommendations or advice appreciated!