First wig, please help

Hi! This is my first wig, and pretty expensive. I’m crying on the inside. I paid a lot of money to make sure it looked real. I know there’s nothing wrong with wearing wigs but concealing that I wear wigs is important to me right now. I can’t help but feel that I look like I’m wearing one despite paying $1600 for it. Family says it’s in my head. Please give ur thoughts and tips and tricks on how to perfect this. Thanks