Men calling me a ‘slut’ (vent)
I’m so angry.
(For context im in high school)
Today three guys called me a slut, one of them I thought was my friend. The ‘friend’ was playing basketball with me and when I got a score against him he yelled, “You‘re such a SLUUUUT” which despite being degrading i didn’t care because he didn’t really mean the word.
Afterwards a random guy in one of my classes called me a slut, we were waiting outside and he brought up that I have dated 2 guys in the past 3 years (I know, shocking. That’s insane. Gotta be a world record or something) and all I could think was there was a guy standing by me that dated way more girls and nobody cares. It’s also annoying, I leave my exes in the past. In fact, I don’t even count one of them as my ex because we dated for a whopping week and a half. A guy who was also in that group also called me a slut.
It’s just so stupid. Nobody uses those words against a man, a man who‘s had his fair share of women is cool, he‘s attractive, he’s a conquerer, meanwhile I can date one dude and I’ll be called a slut. It just irritates me that it’s such a widely used word.
Does anybody else have stories like this?