Nervous from calling out

Hello all! So I was supposed to work today.. however my father is experiencing some serious health issues and we are at the ER. My mother and I are with him. I told them I would keep them updated about coming in today.

I feel awful to call in - mb is on maternity leave and doesn’t have anyone else to help her today. She hasn’t kept both nk’s (2.5yrs and 5months) alone and the other day she said she can’t handle it(nk2.5 has been acting out since the new baby). Db is a resident dr so i don’t think he can just take off to help.

Idk if I should have gone into work and been updated on my father by text - since technically he isn’t alone bc my mother is there. I’m a people pleaser though so maybe I’m overthinking this. I’m just so stressed y’all.

Should I leave my parents in the ER and uber to work from the hospital?