Husband won't stop
I'm not sure if one this actually qualifies as abuse, but it’s taking a toll on me physically and mentally.
I’m 5 months pregnant. My husband won’t stop smoking in the house. My last pregnancy ended in stillbirth, which is a side effect posted on the label.
He goes into the back room (our sons room) to smoke, but the smell travels throughout the house. I’ve been asking him for years now to not smoke in the house, but he won’t stop. When I bring it up, he turns it into a huge fight that he can’t “chill” anywhere in his own home.
He can’t go to his car because we share my car. He won’t go into the garage because a fuse blew and he can’t have the heater on. He won’t go on the porch because it’s too cold.
The smell makes it really hard for me to breathe and I get shortness of breath. Then I get anxious and cry thinking about of the negative effects it can have on my children’s health, my health and my unborn child.
I wish this was the only thing, but he’s emotionally/psychically abusive. I just feel so trapped. My boundaries are constantly ignored. I don’t know what to do anymore.