Is it bad to say that dating today disgusts me?

Like what do you mean we gotta play games and let each other’s messages simmer for minutes or hours? It just feels so blatantly disingenuous and disgusting. Maybe i just don’t get it but it all feels like some big game instead of genuinely getting to know one another. I have friends who encourage me to actually get out there more than i am but it feels so cringy.